life is too short for denials and too damn long for regrets
-unknown
Welcome to Good Mourning!
I’m Bree Crutchfield and from a young age, I’ve been captivated by the concept of death—not in a macabre, horror movie sense, but in a way that seeks peace and understanding. Out of this fascination, the Good Mourning End of Life Doula was born, driven by my personal desire for a good death.
Death with dignity, having a ‘good death,’ if it’s within my grasp, is of the utmost importance to me. Until I am closing the final chapter of my own life, my mission is to extend that desire to others, helping them navigate both a good death and a meaningful…a good mourning process for themselves and their loved ones through communication and education.
The impetus for my journey into end-of-life care came from the profound impact of 2 beloved people. My grandmother and a wonderful friend who transitioned in the ’90’s. The beloved friend of mine was terminally ill unbeknownst to me. I did her hair, I listened to her dreams, I wiped up her vomit, I bathed her. I was unaware at the time but I was doula’g my a dear friend of mine. I visited bi-weekly to style her hair and a friendship was established.
That experience and the experience of losing my aunt, ignited a passion in me to have a good death and a good mourning. That is particularly true for dementia patients and the LGBTQIA community. Watching my grandmother’s struggle with Alzheimer’s disease and my 7-year same sex relations have deepened my commitment to inclusive care for all, especially marginalized communities.
In my work, inclusivity is paramount. Whether you identify with a specific religion or none at all, whether you’re part of the LGBTQIA community or not, and no matter where you fall on the spectrum in between, my commitment is unwavering. If your pronouns are important to you, they are important to me. Your pronouns are not just respected; they are honored, as are your unique traditions.
Join me on this journey toward a good death, where compassion, understanding, and inclusivity pave the way for a peaceful transition. I’m located in Washtenaw County, MI and I look forward to walking with you every step of the way.
Warmly,
Bree Crutchfield
